I’ve always believed that we are each responsible for our own choices and the results that occur. Yet, so many people (and yes, I’ve caught myself doing it on occasion) are too willing to blame someone else for their ills. The car accident that wasn’t their fault, the reason they were late to work or even why they just couldn’t even come in at all, or the overall “my life sucks, because…” excuses.
I had a friend who spent her life as a social worker and she was always regaling me with the excuses people had for why their lives were so messed up. I have to admit, I thought she was making up at least half of the stories she told me…at least until I read the post: Do Your Decisions and Behaviors Align With Your Goals?
The author has an interesting slant on this, and I encourage you to read it, think about it, and (perhaps) even make it one of your life’s goals to better align your choices with your desired outcome…I know, I will.